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Abuse Education

In the wake of the extremely difficult situation our school has been through recently, we have been blessed with many counselors and pastors coming through our doors and sharing their wisdom and guidance with faculty, staff, students and parents.

We have collected a list of resources they shared with us, in the hopes that it may help you talk to your children about abuse and teach them, in age-appropriate ways, how to protect themselves against abuse.

As a school, we want to encourage anyone who has a concern there might be abuse of any sort (whether in home, sports, school, church), to report your concern to a mandatory reporter (teacher, school personnel, therapist, doctor), or if you feel comfortable, call the police or the DHS Child Abuse Reporting Hotline at 1-800-362-2178. 

Note: Mandatory reporters only need to report a concern and do not investigate. A DHS or Level 1 Investigator will investigate whether or not the concerns are founded.

 

Books recommended for K-4 Parents:
Recommended by Dr. Shawn Scholten

Sexual Abuse and Good/Bad Touch
-It's My Body
-Something Must be Wrong with Me (boys)
-I Can't Talk about It (girls)
-Good Touch, Bad Touch
-Please Tell

Feelings in General
-The Way I Feel
-Feelings
-How Are You Peeling?

Specific Feelings
-Wemberly Worried
-The Worrywarts
-Why Do I Feel Scared
-When I Feel Angry

Books recommended for Parents of 5-8 (and above)
Recommended by Pastor Aaron & Nicole Baart
 
Real Sex by Lauren E. Winner
The Struggle by Steve Gerali
Sex God by Rob Bell
Wired for Intimacy by William M. Struthers
The Porn Phenomenon, a Barna Report
Sex for Christians by Lewis B. Smedes
Redeeming Sex by Debra Hirsch
Illusions of Intimacy by Signa Bodishbaugh
The Battle Plan by Matt Frado
These resources from Covenant Eyes: Your Brain on Porn, Protecting your Family Online, Coming Clean, Hope After Porn, The Porn Circuit
 
A few handouts that were shared with us:

Teaching Good Touch, Bad Touch
Information put together by Maggie Greving, LISW and Crista Smidt, School Counselor
Guidelines for the K-4th age group.

Coping and Grief
Information put together by Erin Schroeder at CAASA

If your child does reveal something to you?
Information by Dr. Shawn Scholten at Creative Living Center, PC

Hope & Healing: Reconnecting Our Sexuality & Spirituality
Questions for parents and Jr High to high school students to discuss
by Pastor Aaron & Nicole Baart

All Things New Therapy Services 
Counseling for individuals, children, and families. Locations: Sioux Center and Orange City, 712-737-9444. allthingsnewtherapy.org Jeremy Koerselman, LISW, Rachel Valentine, LMHC.

ATLAS
Sioux Center. 712-722-4900. Hope Soars Counseling, Tara Boer, LISW.

Bethesda Christian Counseling 
Individual, marital, and family counseling; psychiatric services – adults and children. Locations: Sioux Center and Orange City, 712-737-2635.www.bethesdachristiancounseling.org

CAASA, Centers Against Abuse & Sexual Assault
Provides free and confidential services to those impacted by sexual abuse. Services are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. 24/7 HOPE LINE at 1-877-362-4612. www.caasaonline.org

Creative Living Center, P.C.
Licensed mental health and psychiatric services. Locations: Sioux Center, Orange City, Rock Valley, Sheldon, and Hawarden, 1-888-587-2537 or 712-476-5245. www.creativelivingcenterpc.com

Family Solutions Services, INC.
Counseling for individual, marital, family, grief/loss, and EAP. Locations: Orange City, LeMars, and Sioux City, 712-707-9222 (Orange City office)  www.family-solutions-services.com

Lighting a New Way Counseling Service
Lisa Stellinga. Sioux Falls, SD, 605-361-0114.

Lynne Frease McMahan, MS, LMHC 
Therapy for children, teens, and adults. Location: Orange City, 712-707-9988.

Martha Hibma, LISW 
Specializes in counseling for grief and loss, trauma, attachment, depression, anxiety, and coping with daily stressors. Location: Orange City, 712-737-9150. www.marthahibmacounseling.com

Seasons Center for Behavioral Health Offers a broad range of psychiatric and behavioral health. Free in-home services for families of crime survivors. Christina Postma. Locations: Sioux Center, Rock Rapids, Sheldon, and others. 1-800-242-5101. https://seasonscenter.org